Ex-Auburn priest accused of sex abuse

By Nate Robson / The Citizen

Wednesday, November 18, 2009 12:19 AM EST

A former Auburn priest has been accused of sexually abusing a child more than 30 years ago while working at a Monroe County parish, officials with the Roman Catholic Diocese of Rochester said Tuesday.
The Rev. Conrad Sundholm, 80, a retired priest now living in Florida, is accused of abusing the child while working at St. Salome's Church in Irondequoit in the mid-1970s, the diocese said.

An investigation determined the allegations lodged against Sundholm were credible and he has been barred from exercising any public ministries or priestly faculties, the diocese said. Those practices include celebrating Mass, weddings or funerals.

While a letter announcing the allegation was read over the weekend at every church Sundholm served with in Florida and New York, no one else came forward claiming Sundholm abused them, the diocese said.

Sundholm, who was ordained in 1955, served in Auburn at St. Mary's from 1965 to 1971 and at Holy Family and St. Aloysius from 1982 to 1999, the diocese said.

Sundholm, of Spring Hill, Fla., said he was made aware of the allegations last winter and that he had a relationship with the victim that lasted well after the alleged abuse is believed to have happened.

When asked if any inappropriate behavior occurred within their friendship, Sundholm said he could not comment because he was not aware of what he is specifically accused of doing.

“I never considered anything I did abuse,” Sundholm said. “For 20 years after that (the victim) never made me aware of anything abusive.”

Doug Mandelaro, a spokesman for the diocese, said a private firm that uses retired FBI and police experts investigated the allegations and presented their work to a review board, whose members include retired law enforcement officers, child advocates and mental health professionals.

That board offered a recommendation on the credibility of the complaint, which will be sent to the Vatican for a final review and disposition, Mandelaro said.

The maximum action the Vatican can do is to strip Sundholm of his priesthood, Mandelaro said.

Information regarding the alleged abuse has been forwarded to the Monroe County District Attorney's Office, but the status or nature of any criminal proceedings was not available.

To report a case or to receive help and guidance from the diocese, people can call (585) 328-3228 ext. 1215, (800) 388-7177 ext. 1215 or send an e-mail to pedeville@dor.org.

Staff writer Nate Robson can be reached at 253-5311 ext. 248 or nathan.robson@lee.net

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Unknown... wrote on Nov 18, 2009 3:16 PM:

" United, maybe they'll tweet it to you!!! "

parishoner wrote on Nov 18, 2009 1:49 PM:

" I guess i need to tone my opinion down so how about WHAT TOOK SO LONG!!!! "

united we wish wrote on Nov 18, 2009 12:42 PM:

" I wonder what his birds would say. "

patchwork wrote on Nov 18, 2009 12:08 PM:

" Conrad stated "I never considered anything I did abuse". So he admits to some type of contact, just that in "his" eyes it wasn't abuse which would be typical of someone in his holier than thou position. The fact that this has taken well over a year for the Diocese to get this allegation to the public and the fact that they said it was credible, pretty much seals the deal. Guilty as Charged! "

interesting wrote on Nov 18, 2009 11:47 AM:

" longboard...who said the victim was a woman? "

whybother wrote on Nov 18, 2009 10:52 AM:

" Whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty? "

streetcat wrote on Nov 18, 2009 10:33 AM:

" Just because a priest didn't act inappropriately toward you, does not mean he never did toward anyone else. Nor does your experience with him either publicly or personally preclude his doing something awful at some point. He may have been able to control himself in later years or he may just not have been interested in YOU. How absurd it is to say that because a man takes no action towards you when you're alone that you don't think he'd ever do anything.

longboard, you are speaking for yourself and have no business speaking for the parishioners of Holy Family.

The fact that someone loves sports does not ensure their purity. This is irrelevant. Many criminals have loved sports. Do you think sports are some kind of shield? What the heck are you talking about?

If you had a friendship with Conrad Sundholm, them I understand being defensive and unhappy about this.

I wouldn't even suggest breaking that friendship over it. He may have sought forgiveness and done his best to deal with this matter. Just as other priests have. But the pain is still there for many people. And the institutional problem remains. "

flower wrote on Nov 18, 2009 9:58 AM:

" Never did like him for some strange reason...now I know I was right. What's the matter with these people, we
trust(ed) them with our children. No wonder so many young people are leaving the church look who's their role models! "

one opinion wrote on Nov 18, 2009 9:44 AM:

" Longboard315, your defending of father Sundholm maybe justified, but anything is possible, and he maybe guilty or maybe not. Time and facts will tell. "

liberal karl wrote on Nov 18, 2009 9:00 AM:

" longboard, for 20+ years, the "BTK" serial killer was a deacon of his Church, well respected, and "known" al his life by his fellow parishioners. Meanwhile, he was binding, torturing, and killing dozens of people on the side.

WAKE UP. "

patchwork wrote on Nov 18, 2009 8:32 AM:

" longboard, because he didn't abuse you, doesn't mean that he didn't abuse others or maybe even your friends, as they would most likely not tell you. I also knew Con, I do not consider him worthy of being called "Father". Perhaps in his later years at Holy Family he may have calmed down or mellowed out, many knew him in his earlier years and some of his actions most likely could be deemed at least inappropriate if not crossing the line. Many negative comments were on the Democrat and Chronicle website as well. "

twingles13 wrote on Nov 18, 2009 7:48 AM:

" the person probably waited 20 years, for this reason! because the fear of not being believed! some people still feel that priests are "god" and can do no wrong! they are human beings, still capable of sinning! "

Oa wrote on Nov 18, 2009 5:21 AM:

" And the Vatican will probably sweep it under the rug, as usual. "

longboard315 wrote on Nov 18, 2009 4:45 AM:

" Furthermore to all of you who are going to comment here....I was an altar boy under Father Sundholm from the 4th grade, all the way through college. NEVER, ever did he act inapporpriately towards me or any of my friends (boys or girls). And there were plenty of times I was alone with him. Hes a sports guy - and all we and the other kids talked about was sports! Football, basketball, etc. Hes a good man.... "

longboard315 wrote on Nov 18, 2009 4:43 AM:

" This is all a bunch of BS....Father Sundholm is, and will always be a good man. I have known him persoanlly for most of my life and he is a wonderful person who has done so much for Holy Family / St. Aloysis parishes, as well as CYO Basketball and Religious Ed.

Why would this woman wait all these years to finally say something? Something really stinks here.

Have no fear Father, were all behind you @ HF! "

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