Domestic violence knows no bounds. Its victims are women, children, and yes, men, from all walks of life. Women with disabilities are especially vulnerable because of their real or perceived inability to leave their situation, notify others and/or testify about their victimization.

In fact, according to the Centers for Disease Control, a woman with a disability is significantly more likely to experience domestic violence than a woman without a disability: at 37 percent for women with disabilities vs. 21 percent for those without.

Sadly, people with disabilities are more likely to remain in an abusive relationship. Oftentimes the abuser exploits the very resources which the victim uses to maintain her or his independence and autonomy. Hearing aids, canes, auxiliary aids or even medicines turn up missing or locked in an area that the victim cannot access. Telephones are kept out of reach. Transportation is limited to trips of absolute necessity. Victims are kept isolated from their friends, family and even community resources. Many abusers even seek and are granted control over the victim's finances.

Abusers also exploit the misinformation, bias and stigma, which individuals with disabilities often face. Verbal and emotional abuse is common. The abusers warn their victims that no one else will “put up with” them. They tell them that they will never be able to find a living arrangement which will accommodate their needs, which the abuser insists are tremendous. They even instill fear into the victim by warning that “the court system will never award custody of our children to someone like you.”

Domestic violence victims with disabilities who leave abusive relationships face additional obstacles, because they need to create a new network of support which may include comprehensive, coordinated services as well as assistive or adaptive technology and accessible housing. Though it may seem daunting, effective assistance is available.

The Domestic Violence Intervention Program, operated by Cayuga Seneca Community Action Agency, assists victims of domestic violence and their children. Services include a 24-hour hot line ((800) 253-3358), temporary shelter, safety planning assistance and support groups.

Options for Independence works collaboratively with the program to provide resources, referrals and assistance. Local organizations also sponsor rallies and forums such as the Take Back the Night March and Rally, which will be held April 29, and the upcoming “No Excuse for Abuse: Breaking the Silence and Ending the Violence” forum at Booker T. Washington April 22.

If you know someone who is being abused, urge them to seek help from our community resources. It could save their life.

Tracy L. Murphy is the executive director for Options for Independence