Estabrook: Gay marriage good for state

By Carole Estabrook

Wednesday, June 4, 2008 11:41 AM EDT

New York state will now recognize gay marriages performed in states and/or countries where it is legal.
In a memo to state agencies, Gov. David Paterson followed up on the Spitzer/ Paterson campaign promise to join the fight for gay rights. The measure ensures that gay couples can qualify for joint health care plans, receive tax breaks by filing jointly and legally inherit property.

The statute could also potentially increase the rights of gay couples applying for adoption.

Members of the Republican majority were thrown by the memo. The state constitution makes very clear that New York state will only recognize marriages between a man and a woman. As it stands right now, Paterson's edict is only valid if the state Constitution is rewritten.

But the majority obviously isn't sensitive to the importance of equality. A “domestic partnership” is granted, making homosexuality permissible only as mediated by a superior governing body. It's condescending, judgmental, insensitive and ultimately unjust.

Ridiculous considering that gay marriage can only help the economy. Marriage licensing fees alone could generate millions for the state. And weddings certainly aren't cheap. Think about it; if you increase the number of weddings you increase profits for caterers, DJs, bands, florists, department stores, hotels and tourism in general. A much needed boost to an ailing economy.

From income taxes to inheritance taxes, the revenue generated by gay marriages would help recoup the deficit that New York is presently trying to earn through creative (borderline absurd) taxation. Not to mention that couples filing jointly are often pushed into a higher tax bracket. That could increase federal tax revenue by as much as a billion dollars each year; a win-win for everyone.

There is something to be said for the concern that gay unions may open the door for polygamy and bestiality and who knows what else. But if you keep a union as being between two people, I don't foresee a catastrophic title wave of problems or complications.

The fact is that objection to homosexuality is personal and often religious. But it isn't fair to disregard a large percentage of the population because their lifestyle doesn't gel with the religious values of the greater populace.

Frankly, I think Paterson is going about this very smartly by presenting a pretty fair compromise for both parties, for and against. Besides, people may change their tune about gay marriage when happy days are here again.

Estabrook's column appears Mondays and she can be reached at estabrookcarole@yahoo.com

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Hillbilly wrote on Jun 9, 2008 9:07 AM:

" For this issue I ask the Golden Rule: Treat others as you wish to be treated. With this in mind, Gay Marriage or Civil Union is OK. I believe Vermont has it right by calling it a Civil Union only to differentiate between Straight Marriage and Gay Marriage. It's still a union between two people and the Civil Union would still allow all the same rights as those of a Marriage. Which ever name they wish to use, the rights of the individual should not be infringed. This is one of the bedrock principles this country was founded on, the Individuals Rights, and religion should have nothing to do with it. If your religion says Gay Marriage is wrong and you wish to follow it, then go ahead and follow it for yourself. "

karl wrote on Jun 7, 2008 6:59 PM:

" rd, can I be your best man if you marry your dog?
I married my dirt bike years ago! "

karl wrote on Jun 7, 2008 6:58 PM:

" Vindication--thanks for the laugh! Mass murder, Misogyny and Incest are in the Bible too!
Who sets the example for Christian society? YOu might want to talk to your local atheist chapter? There's some fine"Christian-type values" there without the bigotry and hatred.
BTW, Roman and Greek societies were brought down by Judaism and Christianity. Plain and simple. The Golden Age of Man was under Paganism! "

owascoman wrote on Jun 7, 2008 1:48 PM:

" Here is my response to Unknown and his followers.

Unknown... wrote on Jun 2, 2008 12:18 PM:

" This is a fine example of the liberal way of thinking that is tearing down the moral fabric of this country, and hat it once stood for. "

Bravo to Mr. Unknown. We used to have slavery in these good ole United States. Black and white could not marry. Women could not vote. Blacks could not vote. Yeah, let's go back to the good ole days.

What ticks me off is that the decision about gay marriage is even left up to popular vote at all. Why should the people of a state decide if gay marriage should take place or not? Let the "activist judges" decide.

Now please tell me how gay marriage will in any way tear down the moral fabric of this country or affect hetero marriage in any way. "

rd wrote on Jun 7, 2008 11:54 AM:

" If I have the right to marry anyone I want to, please let me marry my sister!!! And who is to say that I should only marry one person. Just think of the revenue generated if I could marry many people and even maybe my dog. "

Brian33908 wrote on Jun 7, 2008 1:36 AM:

" Carol, you've done an admirable job addressing this issue. Although I don't know that the financial implications are substantial enough to affect the state's fiscal woes. But it's a good angle on an issue that otherwise gets only hot air (as evidenced by the comments). "

Vindication wrote on Jun 6, 2008 10:17 PM:

" It`s all about sexual sin. Pretty simple. The guidelines are in the Holy Bible. If the Church is full of sexual sin, who sets the example for Christian society, society itself.

Roman and Greek history is a powerful reminder who really is in charge. "

GiveMeLiberty wrote on Jun 6, 2008 4:31 PM:

" Way to miss the entire point Carole!

We can't have politicians running around issuing "edicts" willy-nilly. There is a process to change laws in the state and in this country, and that process is being ignored!

It doesn't matter how pro-gay rights you are, or how anti-gay rights you are. In this country, elected politicians are not kings!

We saw a lot of this with Bush, and now NY is seeing more of the same with Paterson.

-GML

PS. Homosexuals are not "a large portion of the population". "

karl wrote on Jun 4, 2008 7:10 PM:

" Unknown--apparently ALL of the dinosaurs are not yet extinct?
LOL! "

ej2521 wrote on Jun 4, 2008 1:35 PM:

" hey unknown---by moral fabric are you talking about heterosexual marriage..and the fact that 1/2 marriages end in divorce? By moral fabirc are you talking about people who have five, six or seven marriages, or marriages that last 54 hours? Obviously two gay people who have been in a relationship for 50 years have no morals. WOW the fact that people are still arguing about granting everyone the rights this country was based on, makes me think we have gained no ground in our fight for total equality for every man and woman. "

mjmanning wrote on Jun 2, 2008 4:35 PM:

" I'm sorry "Unknown". I didn't know that our country stood for heterosexual marriages only. I thought it stood for freedom. "

Unknown... wrote on Jun 2, 2008 12:18 PM:

" This is a fine example of the liberal way of thinking that is tearing down the moral fabric of this country, and what it once stood for. "

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