We all make mistakes in life; that makes us human

Tuesday, April 22, 2008 11:42 AM EDT

This letter is regarding the Gary Hill article (“Locke man killed in crash”) printed April 12, by the news staff at The Citizen. The article was printed the day after Gary tragically lost his life of only 25 years in a car accident.
I will never understand how one of your writers could have been so unfeeling to submit an article like that. It is one thing to report the news and another in how it is presented to the public. That article had no other objective than to report only the negative part of the past. Gary was trying to make changes in his life and for that he should have been commended. He was so young, only 25 years old, but he was responsible in his work ethics and his parenting skills.

We all in life make mistakes and that is part of what makes us human. Gary needs to be remembered for the loving and sensitive person he was. He worked and he supported his children. He loved his family and his friends and we all were and are proud of him. The legacy he has left for all of us is not one of troubled thoughts, but rather one of love and pride in who Gary Hill really was.

I hope that his children never have to read that article, written without any compassion, for they deserve so much more. Maybe you can all learn something from this whole terrible situation, and that would be ... to never lose compassion for another human being and maybe to thank your lucky stars that this didn't happen to your son or father, brother or friend. My heart goes out to all of Gary Hill's family and loved ones. May God be with them this day forward.

I am glad to see that The Citizen is printing the other side of the story.

Pam Cummins

Locke

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pamnewyork wrote on Apr 23, 2008 2:06 PM:

" To those of you that commented on my above letter to the editor, I would like all of the facts to be known. I wrote this article 2 days after Gary's tragic death and it was not printed until yesterday. I agree that this needs to be put to rest also. Gary was an extended part of my family so this is not just a story to me. I want to thank you for expressing your condolences. It means so much at a time like this to all of us that knew and loved Gary. He was a wonderful guy with a never ending smile and I had the honor of having him in my life. May he rest in peace.
Thank you,
Pam "

forrest wrote on Apr 23, 2008 9:08 AM:

" Let the guy rest in peace and put the letters to the editor to rest also. The guy was in the news before he died and he was in the news afterwards. That what the news paper does, prints the new, good or bad. "

brew1234 wrote on Apr 23, 2008 12:53 AM:

" The families memories are what is important not those comments of the Citizen. The free press has the responsibility to report the news not what you want printed. My condolences to the family. And don't pay any heed to the news. They are only reporting the news. You know and love the man. And you complainers are only making it more difficult for the family. Find a different way to express your grief. "

country chick wrote on Apr 22, 2008 4:03 PM:

" I agree that the articles posted about Gary were written with no compassion and they did go way too far. I do believe they wanted to public to know about him as they do with everyone and everything else in the paper. The citizen needs to work on the way they word things, that does make a huge difference in any statement. This is all very tragic but it is now time to deal with Gary’s death. Yes, the citizen talked a lot of trash but in all reality no matter how many people write letters to the citizen, Gary is not coming back and I am incredibly sorry for that. "

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