An old friend from our college days used to love the expression, “There's no righteousness like self-righteousness!”
In truth, there's no righteousness in self-righteousness!
In identifying a few of the symptoms of this disease (in others, of course!), we see these tendencies: the ability (?) to instantly recognize everyone else's shortcomings, flaws and weaknesses compared to their own; to look at those who are different even superficially from themselves as strange, and their actions suspicious; to glorify those like them (or those they like) above others, even implying “super-human” status; and to easily condemn others' evils, crimes and missteps - while excusing, justifying or even exonerating themselves and those in their “circle” who do exactly the same.
This is not restricted to politics or religion. In fact, every sporting event is punctuated with an audience of “fans” (interesting word) cheering on their favorite team/athlete in a positive, healthy manner.
It can become ugly in character when competition extends beyond legitimate bounds. The man in the fight movie didn't really mean it when he yelled out, “Murder the bum!” (hopefully).
Myths and stereotypes can take on a life of their own. My mother, who was a saint #- I mean, a wonderfully decent person #- would warn me not to play with “those” children, or walk through “their” neighborhoods. Ironically, her good intentions notwithstanding, (we lived in the South Bronx), I befriended many of “those” people, and found among them sometimes superior character to their “acceptable” counterparts!
While this may not always be true, we can cheat ourselves when we refuse to deal with human beings as human, and cast aside stereotypes (and the myths and superstitions that often come with them). We can even end up trapped behind myths and stereotypes of our own: not only do we strip others of their own humanity, we become unrecognizable except in caricatures of ourselves! So, self-righteousness feeds on itself, as do many diseases. And, because we can become very comfortable in it, we have to desire a cure. Thanksgiving reminds us: there is a cure!
And why should we desire it?
One of the most beautiful things I've discovered in my granddaughter is the incredible joy of life itself! I reflect on it, and her, in my moments of frustration, disappointment, and my own short-sightedness (that is, daily). It's not that she can't see the problems of life, less than one year old: it's that she can see past them!
There is a verse in the Book of Islam, the Qur'an; in fact, it's the most often-repeated verse in it! It asks, “Which of the Favors of Your Lord Will You Deny?”
If you can, take a very deep breath right now, and consider the blessing in being able to breathe at all! But we can do more than that: we can make life easier, more meaningful for another human being. The expression goes, “Charity begins at home, and spreads abroad!” How much better a world can we make it by moving away from self-righteous stagnation and moving toward what demonstrates an “Attitude of Gratitude”!
The joy of doing, helping another person, even in an encouraging word, has a value beyond mere sensation. And when we can share joy, it is a uniquely human experience! (Yes, I love my cat - and no, it's not the same!) That is why dialogues are so important: we are more alike than unalike!
I would like to join others in welcoming all who can to attend a very special Thanksgiving event Tuesday, Nov. 20, at the synagogue (that's right!) on John Smith Road, just off Genesee Street in Auburn at 7 p.m. Come see how many in our “circles” join many others to be thankful together to the One Who Created us all.
Imam Muhammad, an Auburn resident
and Muslim chaplain in the correctional systems, is a board member of the Cayuga County Area InterFaith Ministries and works with Community-Wide Dialogues to End Racism in Auburn and Syracuse
In identifying a few of the symptoms of this disease (in others, of course!), we see these tendencies: the ability (?) to instantly recognize everyone else's shortcomings, flaws and weaknesses compared to their own; to look at those who are different even superficially from themselves as strange, and their actions suspicious; to glorify those like them (or those they like) above others, even implying “super-human” status; and to easily condemn others' evils, crimes and missteps - while excusing, justifying or even exonerating themselves and those in their “circle” who do exactly the same.
This is not restricted to politics or religion. In fact, every sporting event is punctuated with an audience of “fans” (interesting word) cheering on their favorite team/athlete in a positive, healthy manner.
It can become ugly in character when competition extends beyond legitimate bounds. The man in the fight movie didn't really mean it when he yelled out, “Murder the bum!” (hopefully).
Myths and stereotypes can take on a life of their own. My mother, who was a saint #- I mean, a wonderfully decent person #- would warn me not to play with “those” children, or walk through “their” neighborhoods. Ironically, her good intentions notwithstanding, (we lived in the South Bronx), I befriended many of “those” people, and found among them sometimes superior character to their “acceptable” counterparts!
While this may not always be true, we can cheat ourselves when we refuse to deal with human beings as human, and cast aside stereotypes (and the myths and superstitions that often come with them). We can even end up trapped behind myths and stereotypes of our own: not only do we strip others of their own humanity, we become unrecognizable except in caricatures of ourselves! So, self-righteousness feeds on itself, as do many diseases. And, because we can become very comfortable in it, we have to desire a cure. Thanksgiving reminds us: there is a cure!
And why should we desire it?
One of the most beautiful things I've discovered in my granddaughter is the incredible joy of life itself! I reflect on it, and her, in my moments of frustration, disappointment, and my own short-sightedness (that is, daily). It's not that she can't see the problems of life, less than one year old: it's that she can see past them!
There is a verse in the Book of Islam, the Qur'an; in fact, it's the most often-repeated verse in it! It asks, “Which of the Favors of Your Lord Will You Deny?”
If you can, take a very deep breath right now, and consider the blessing in being able to breathe at all! But we can do more than that: we can make life easier, more meaningful for another human being. The expression goes, “Charity begins at home, and spreads abroad!” How much better a world can we make it by moving away from self-righteous stagnation and moving toward what demonstrates an “Attitude of Gratitude”!
The joy of doing, helping another person, even in an encouraging word, has a value beyond mere sensation. And when we can share joy, it is a uniquely human experience! (Yes, I love my cat - and no, it's not the same!) That is why dialogues are so important: we are more alike than unalike!
I would like to join others in welcoming all who can to attend a very special Thanksgiving event Tuesday, Nov. 20, at the synagogue (that's right!) on John Smith Road, just off Genesee Street in Auburn at 7 p.m. Come see how many in our “circles” join many others to be thankful together to the One Who Created us all.
Imam Muhammad, an Auburn resident
and Muslim chaplain in the correctional systems, is a board member of the Cayuga County Area InterFaith Ministries and works with Community-Wide Dialogues to End Racism in Auburn and Syracuse
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