Options for Independence is an independent living center which assists people with disabilities gain opportunities, make their own decisions, pursue activities and become part of their community life. We provide a variety of services to all people with disabilities, including the enforcement of rights in regards to access, education, employment, health care and housing.

Options believes in building independent living skills and utilizing self sufficiency. Living independently means having full control over ones life. Options for Independence believes every individual has the right to decide their own decisions, whether or not it's the right choice. Everyone has the right to fail and succeed. Life is a learning experience. Nobody makes the right decision all the time, including individuals without disabilities. Having the same options as individuals without disabilities and making decisions that leads to self determination is based on the independent living philosophy.

However, communities still have barriers that severely limit individuals with disabilities choices, such as a lack of ramps, Braille and interpreters. Even more limiting are people's discriminations and prejudices towards disabilities. These barriers lower expectations and restrict rights of individuals with disabilities.

Stereotypes influence the way individuals view the disability community. Educating yourself about disabilities and the independent living philosophy is the first step in overcoming negative stigmas. Communicating with an individual with a disability can be a barrier for some individuals. Below is a list of the top five tips to use when communicating with an individual with a disability.

1) Speak directly to the individual with the disability, not the companion, sign language interpreter or the person pushing the wheelchair. Speak at eye level when communicating with an individual in a wheelchair or with crutches.

2) It is OK to offer assistance but wait until you receive permission. Do not give help that is not wanted.

3) Address people with disabilities by their first names only when given permission to. You want to treat them as an adult like you would anyone else.

4) Don't pet a guide dog or service animal unless given permission from the owner; it could distract them from their work.

5) Finally, just be yourself and don't worry if you happen to use expressions like “See you later” when speaking to an individual with a vision impairment or any other terminology that may relate to a disability. Don't be embarrassed to discuss sports or events; most individuals with a disability participate in the same activities as those without a disability.

Quote of the week:

“Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.”

- Lou Holtz

Amanda Derby is the housing advocate for Options for Independence, located at 75 Genesee St., Auburn. She may be reached at 255-3447