Boyfriend gets 15 years for stabbing

By Amaris Elliott-Engel / The Citizen

Wednesday, May 30, 2007 10:16 AM EDT

AUBURN - If Stephen Holbert truly loved his on-and-off girlfriend, he would not have stabbed her, Judge Thomas Leone said as he sentenced Holbert to 15 years in state prison and five years post-release supervision.
“Quite frankly,” Leone said in Cayuga County Court Tuesday, “when you love somebody, you don't plunge a steak knife in their stomach and twist it.”

Holbert, 48, with a last known address of Apt. Z-288, 2 Schwartz Drive, and currently held in Cayuga County Jail, was sentenced for the felony of second-degree attempted murder of a 43-year-old woman he has been involved with for eight years. Following the Sept. 16, 2006 stabbing at the Standart Woods complex in Auburn, the woman required more than 10 surgeries because of an internal organ injury.

Holbert had told the victim he researched on the Internet that a stabbing, twisting wound to the abdomen would never heal and she would die from it, Chief Assistant District Attorney Jon Budelmann said.

Holbert's criminal history has always involved a girlfriend or the mother of his children, Leone said. Holbert was sentenced to one to four years in state prison for the 1989 convictions of third-degree burglary and first-degree reckless endangerment.

The stocky man with a shaved head struggled to find words at first when he addressed the court.

He said he knew he had done wrong. “I pray for her every night. I still love her. I'm just very sorry for what happened,” Holbert said.

The woman is “lucky to be alive,” Budelmann said.

Holbert had broken her ribs in the past, and Holbert told her as she tried to end the relationship that if he couldn't have her, no one would, the prosecutor said.

During Holbert's plea last month, he said he didn't know what happened the night of the stabbing but he didn't deny he was responsible for the stabbing.

“This woman lives in fear,” Budelmann said. “He told her if she ever had him arrested, he would get out, find her and slit her throat.”

Holbert's assigned attorney, Kevin Taylor, said it was somewhat difficult to advocate a bright side of an attempted murder defendant but that Holbert, who has a tattoo of a cross on his right wrist, never denied what he did and expressed remorse.

He loved the victim and would take it back if he could, the attorney said.

“There's a part of him that isn't a beast ... without all that alcohol and all that abuse over the years,” Taylor said.

An order of protection was granted for the woman.

Staff writer Amaris Elliott-Engel can be reached at 253-5311 ext. 282 or at amaris.elliot-engel@lee.net

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Another Blood Relative wrote on Jun 5, 2007 4:13 PM:

" AGAIN EVERYONE'S KNOWN ABOUT HIS PROBLEMS FOR YEARS, & YEARS, BUT DON'T FOR A MINUTE TELL ME IT'S ALL SUBSTANCE ABUSE BASED. THAT'S A MAJOR COP OUT AS HE'S HAD YEARS WHERE WHEN YOUNGER SUBSTANCE HAD NOTHING TO DO WITH HIS ACTIONS, AGRESSION, AND ANGER ISSUES. THE BOTTOM LINE FOR THIS MAN IS HE WANTED WHAT HE WANTED WHEN HE WANTED IT, AND GOD SAVE WHO EVER GETS OR GOT IN HIS WAY. SELFISHLY HURTING WHO EVER HE FELT LIKE, JUST TO PLEASE HIS OWN PERVERTED AND VIOLENT WAYS, WHICH IS WHAT HE HAS DONE HIS WHOLE ENTIRE LIFE, SO I'M NOT SURE IF MENTAL HELP WOULD HAVE EVEN BEEN AN ANSWER, AS YOU AS A PERSON WANT TO NEED THE HELP BEFORE IT CAN DO A BIT OF GOOD!!!! "

TO PATHETIC wrote on Jun 4, 2007 12:23 PM:

" I AM NOT BLAMING ANYONE. STEVE IS TO BLAME BUT WITH HIS PROBLEMS IM JUST SAYING THE MAN REALLY NEEDS HELP.NOW WOULD BE THE PERFECT TIME TO START.I AGREE DRUGS AND BOOZE ARE NOT TO BLAME. BUT HIS MENTAL PROBLEMS ARE. WHY NOT BE A CARING HUMAN AND SEE THAT A MAN IS HURT AND DOWN LETS HELP HIM. "

Pathetic.... wrote on Jun 4, 2007 11:52 AM:

" I dont like how everyone tries to point fingers. If you noticed something was wrong, then maybe YOU should have done something. Stop blaming others for his doings. "

BLOOD RELATIVE wrote on Jun 4, 2007 11:10 AM:

" I THINK HE SHOULD HAVE A FULL MENTAL EVALUATION DONE AND THEN PUT SOMEWHERE HE CAN GET THE HELP HE HAS NEEDED FOR YEARS.WHAT HE DID WAS TERRIBLE BUT HERE IS A HUMAN THAT IS DOWN SO LETS KICK HIM OVER AND OVER WHILE HE IS DOWN.WHATS WRONG WITH THAT? LETS STAND HIM UP AND TRY TO HELP THE MAN.HE WAS ON MEDS WELL THEY WERE NOT THE RIGHT ONES. "

blood relative wrote on Jun 3, 2007 8:30 PM:

" I think all of us that knew Stephen knew something was wrong with him, especially his relatives. He had always had problems we did not undetstand. But we did the right thing, we avoided him. had nothing to do with him as we did not approve of his lifestyle. But tossing him aside was not he answer. He needed help way back then, but we did not listen to his silent cry for help. People feel he had a choice to make better decisions. But someone with mental problems do not make the same choices as a sane person. Yes what he did was beyond horrible, but he needs help that i am sure a prison will not give him. As it stated he did time 18 yrs ago. That sure helped him as here he is in same situation only more violent. Stephen had been in 1st north and out on assisted living out of the unity house. HE was on meds to control his problems. Well something was not working for him . We all failed Stephen, his family, his friends, his medical support and now the courts and foremost Stephen himself Stephen needs to be in a place to take care of his mental condition , even if it takes forever, but he needs to know someone cares and thinks he is worth saving, even if it is only a mental institution doing it. Everyone needs a reason to go on , to change, to be a better person. "

FRIEND wrote on Jun 3, 2007 8:15 PM:

" IM SORRY ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED TO THE GIRL BUT BUT BUT. IF YOU ARE BEING HURT GET OUT, I DONT WANT TO HEAR 'I HAVE NO WHERE TO GO .' BULL. TWO PEOPLE FIGHTING ALL THE TIME IS GOING TO LEAD TO TROUBLE. "

blood relative to blood relative wrote on Jun 3, 2007 8:08 PM:

" blood relative to relative. you say addiction leads to 3 things jail;institutions';death. YOU GOT IT. THE JAIL IS NOT DOING THE JOB CAUSE PEOPLE NEED HELP AND DONT GET IT. PUT THEM IN JAIL, LET THEM OUT IN A FEW YEARS.WITH A IM SORRY. WOULDNT IT BE BETTER TO LET THEM OUT IN A FEW YEARS WITH HELP.I DONT UNDERSTAND HOW ANY ONE CAN SAY SUCHCRAP HEARTLESS STUFF ABOUT SOMEONE WHO REALLY NEEDS HELP. STOP BEING MEAN AND GET HIM OUT GET THE MAN SOME HELPPPPPPP. "

blood relative to blood relative wrote on Jun 3, 2007 5:11 PM:

" IF YOU ARE A RELATIVE THEN YOU KNOW HE NEEDED HELP YEARS AGO. HOW HAS HE BEEN ALL HIS LIFE.? NOT RIGHT. WE ALL KNOW THIS.WE DID NOT DO ENOUGH TO HELP HIM SO ARE WE TO BLAME TO ?WHAT HE DID WAS TERRIBLE YES . NOW LETS PUT HIM SOMEWHERE TO GET HELP. NO NOT A SHORT TIME. HE NEEDS TO BE IN SOMEWHERE BESIDES PRISON TO GET THE HELP HE NEEDS.I FEEL THE JUDGE IS NOT CONSIDERING THE MENTAL STATE OF STEPHEN. GET TO KNOWHOW HE WAS ALL HIS LIFE HE NEEDS HELP. "

Blood Relative wrote on Jun 1, 2007 10:31 PM:

" Beleive me.....No one deserves the prison time more than him. He may be an addict of different substances, but the past jail and prison sentences ...all due to substance abuses and domestic violence, should have alerted him that it's time to make the choice to grow up! He CHOSE not to. He deserves pity from NO ONE, Especially a judge! It's just too bad the different women in his life had to suffer from his abuse due to his blatant refusal to grow up and be responsible for himself. Addiction is a disease but many just use it as an excuse. I say Reap what you Sow! Remember, Addiction leads to only 3 things.....JAILS, INSTITUTIONS, OR DEATH. Hopefully, 15 years will be enough time for him to take resposibility for his actions and gain control of his addiction. For if he doesn't, I'm quite sure you all know how history just repeats itself. "

friend wrote on Jun 1, 2007 9:12 PM:

" I DONT THINK VIOLENCE IS THE ANSWER. BUT IF YOU KNEW THIS MAN HE NEEDED HELP YEARS AGO. WAS TOLD HE WOULD BE OK. WELL THANK YOU CAYUGA COUNTY. THE MAN NEEDS HELP NOT PRISON. "

another joke of the system wrote on May 31, 2007 11:52 AM:

" Same old same - I didn't interpret what Sad to Hear This wrote as blaming this guy's bad behavior on the system. Also, unless you were actually there - you don't know who poured or slipped what into him. I am not defending him or sympathetic for the guy. But look around - who can you or I blame other than "the system" that this guy was on the streets? "

same old same wrote on May 30, 2007 10:26 PM:

" To sad to hear this, why it always somebody else fault when one of these dirtbags commits a crime like this and over the years has abused this woman? Yet he says he loves her, he drank the booze, took the drugs, he's a big boy quit blaming the system and everybody else,nobody held him down and poured the booze in him and nobody forced the drugs on him, it was his choice. "

sad to hear this.... wrote on May 30, 2007 8:06 PM:

" i knew mr steve holbert and am shocked to hear this, know that he has had a problem for over 16+ years, back then needed help but system pushed him around and said hehad no known issues back then but he begged for help, was told he would be fine, now look! cayuga county sucks big time for people needing help! i wish this woman a speedy recovery! "

Worried wrote on May 30, 2007 7:19 PM:

" 15 yrs for stabbing, another 10 yrs for gasoline. All because they wanted to end a very abusive relationship. they get to rest easy while they are locked up, but scared as hell when they get out. Can the courts honestly assure them that they have nothing to fear when the guys get out of prison? I don't think so. They say they still love them but in the process try to take their lives. I for one don't think either of the men will prove they changed. "

dave b wrote on May 30, 2007 6:53 PM:

" Well Rick, Kevin didn't say the guy was a sweetheart, just that he wasn't a beast, big difference. "

Tax payer wrote on May 30, 2007 4:22 PM:

" With the DAs cayuga county has now and with the new DA after the election in Nov. Judge Leone looks like a no nonsence Judge, maybe real jail sentences will be handed out and the tax payers of Cayuga County will not have to worry that the sentences will be over turned because of bad evidence or some other baloney in the DAs office and there won't be any law suits. "

jake wrote on May 30, 2007 3:06 PM:

" i agree with appauled he was only sorry he got caught "

john wrote on May 30, 2007 2:10 PM:

" 15years for a stab to the stomach...8yrs for slicing somebodys neck.......can someone explain this???? "

d wrote on May 30, 2007 1:28 PM:

" Too bad it isn't ethcial to treat him as he has treated others. He should be reminded of that every day he lives. "

appauled wrote on May 30, 2007 1:25 PM:

" He was sorry becuase he got caught, an abuser doesn't think of his/her actions at the time when they are beating their victim(s) or worse. They are sorry after the fact, not because of what they did but because they might get in trouble or did get in trouble. I hope her gets all that is coming to him in prison. My heart goes out to the victim. May she find peace knowing that he can't hurt her anymore. I applaud Judge Leone! "

Vickie wrote on May 30, 2007 12:52 PM:

" one less batterer around! "

Rick wrote on May 30, 2007 12:42 PM:

" Well Mr.Kevin Taylor, he can live with you when he get's out if he's such a sweetheart! Auburn needs someone like Judge Leone! "

You can blame wrote on May 30, 2007 12:06 PM:

" alcohol, drugs, etc all you want. He is responsible for his own actions. Plenty of people everyday beat the odds. He deserves the prison time. Thank goodness Judge Leone sees that. "

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