Parents learn tragic lesson

By The Associated Press

Monday, April 30, 2007 10:22 AM EDT

HUNTINGTON - The Nelsons lost 16-month-old Alec three years ago when his grandfather drove his SUV over the toddler while backing out of a driveway.
Cameron Gulbransen was 2 when his pediatrician dad backed his SUV over him on a Saturday night in October 2001.

Alec and Cameron are just two victims in what parents and child safety advocates call a growing trend of children being killed and maimed by vehicles - often their family's own SUVs and minivans - backing out of driveways and parking spaces.

“This can happen in a second and you never think it will happen to you,” said Alec's dad, Bill Nelson of Dix Hills. “It can and it does. Think about that every time you back up.”

The tragic trend is known as the “bye-bye syndrome,” said Janette Fennell, founder of the Kansas-based Kids And Cars.org safety advocacy group.

Children “don't want to be left behind” when a beloved relative is leaving; they sneak out and put themselves in a dangerous position behind the vehicles where they can't be seen.

“They don't understand,” she said. “They just want to give grandma another kiss goodbye.”

“Our little 20-month-old Tiffany walked outside, anxious, I am sure, to help her daddy move the car ... to give him one more kiss,” an Arizona mom writes on Fennell's Web site. “I have nightmares of hearing him scream into the house, 'CALL 911-CALL 911!”'

At a recent press conference to raise awareness, Alec's mom, Adriann Raschdorf-Nelson, said she hopes people will realize the accidents are not necessarily due to negligence.

“It's the fact that you can't see behind you when you back up,” she said, her eyes misting as she thought about her son, who died April 24, 2004. “We never thought this would happen to us because we were careful. We knew where our children were at all times.”

“You can't always count on that.”

The couple worked with the Suffolk County Legislature to implement “Alec's Law,” which requires auto dealers to distribute safety tips to buyers; it is believed to be the first of its kind in the nation, advocates say.

Because the National Highway Transportation Safety Administration does not track accidents that occur on private property - like driveways - statistics about “backover” accidents are difficult to track. The NHTSA estimates there are at least 183 fatalities annually; children 15 and younger accounted for 145 of those fatalities, spokeswoman Karen Aldana said. The second-largest group were people older than 70.

Fennell's group tracks statistics by reviewing traffic accident reports, news stories and other media searches. She noted that in April, the number of fatalities spiked to 14 children nationwide.

“We can't sit still for this,” she said. “What would this country do if 14 children came down with bird flu this month, or what if they were dying from bad burgers? I don't know why the American people aren't horrified that 14 children have been killed this way this month alone.”

Fennell contends that more than half of the backover accidents involve big vehicles like SUVs and minivans. “People want to use the term `blind spot.' We are defining it as a blind zone.”

She noted one SUV has a blind zone that is seven feet wide, by 69 feet long. “You can't call that a spot,” she said.

Federal legislation named for Cameron Gulbransen has been pending in Congress for several years, but his father, Dr. Greg Gulbransen of Syosset, said he is optimistic about its passage this session.

Sponsored by Sen. Hillary Rodham Clinton and Rep. Peter King, R-Long Island, it calls for the Department of Transportation to establish visibility performance standards and to create a database that would track backover accidents.

Wade Newton, a spokesman for the Alliance of Automobile Manufacturers in Washington, D.C., which represents seven top automakers, said his organization has not taken a position on the Gulbransen legislation, but supports the creation of a database to track backover accidents.

“The bottom line is safety is our highest priority,” he said, adding backup cameras and other safety technologies “show promise, but more research and development is needed.”

Newton added: “Parental supervision is essential to any technology that we introduce.”

Gulbransen, a pediatrician who has treated other children injured in backovers, said he could not have been more careful.

“I never saw him,” he said of the cherubic-faced Cameron. “I was looking very carefully, driving very slowly in what I thought was a safe car.”

He said Cameron, “for the first time ever, opened the front door, got out of the house, went down the driveway to find me.

“I backed right over him.”

“Cameron came into the world as a tough little guy who loved life,” says his family's Web memorial. “He loved being tossed into the air, hugged, wrestled with and most of all he loved to play with his older brother, Scott.”

“...Let us all learn from little Cameron and make the world a safer place.”

On the Net: www.kidsandcars.org

The Citizens' Say

There are 7 comment(s)

SAFETYandAWARENESSisthepoint wrote on May 1, 2007 1:00 PM:

" It is not the type of vehicle you drive (Yes-some vehicles are larger and pose a higher risk of visibility). It is not the amount of money you make. ACCIDENTS can and will happen to anyone-any time-any place. Just like when you are driving on the road you do have a 'blind spot'-no matter which size vehicle you have. You need to glance to your left or right and use your peripheral vision to be certain there is no car approaching before you switch lanes. Go to the website kidsandcars.org and read these families stories before you pass judgemental remarks! I bet some of these stories will make you stop and think-'I have done that and did not think twice that this incident could happen to me!' The point is letting people be aware that the risk is there & to be aware that all of us need to take a "time out" and not be in such a rush that we make careless mistakes that we regret later. Or taking that extra minute to account for everyone to be sure everyone is accounted for-just like during a fire drill! These families tragedies are horrific and other families have horrible tragedies over other accidents that we all think "that should not have happened" and "only if I did this or that." We need to learn from other persons misfortunes and take a lesson from them to apply to our everyday lives. In our occupations, in our homes, in the local store, an accident can happen at any time. I have backed out of a parking spot at a store several times and a person continues to walk right behind me even when I am already in the process of backing up. I think to myself "what are they doing-trying to get hit!" We have back up lights on our cars but people often insist on walking right behind you any way- because they feel the pedestrian has the right of way-no matter what. So I try to park so I am pulling out of a spot forward instead of backing up if at all possible. And no, I do not drive a big SUV-but I try not to think things can NOT happen to me- I always think it can. How many of us remember the small child that choked on a band-aid-the parents probably did not think the child was old enough to get it off. All of you reading this article-go to the website provided-read these stories-take a lesson from them that you can apply to your annaul family vacation or every day hectic-get out the door mornings! "

dave wrote on Apr 30, 2007 8:32 PM:

" mph or mpg "

CK wrote on Apr 30, 2007 8:12 PM:

" Maybe people just need to pay more attention to what they are doing. Don't need any more laws that won't be enforced anyways. "

we need wrote on Apr 30, 2007 6:08 PM:

" to return to driving station wagons and stop the SUV/minivan madness. Unless you've got a brood of kids you don't need a large vehicle "

Isn't it sad.. wrote on Apr 30, 2007 3:34 PM:

" It's not the size of the vehicle that is the problem! I am a mother of 4 and I have a mini van.. The simple fact is, you need to know where your children are at all times.. If you are not sure, get out of your car, truck, suv, mini van (whatever) and check behind it before you back up!! Being paranoid is better than being sorry that you didn't take the 3 or 4 seconds it takes to get out and check!! Kids are quick and as parents we need to always be one step a head, whenever possible! It's a very sad article, but it is so true! It only takes a second!! "

Stop Judging People! wrote on Apr 30, 2007 2:37 PM:

" With the car seat laws, and the size of the car seats, if you have any more than two children or ever wish to travel or transport more than two young children at a time (such as in a carpool to school or sporting/cultural events) you NEED a minivan. Our minivan gets 25 m/gal and has enabled us to take one automobile, instead of two, to many events with our family and friends. I am happy they published an article to make people aware and hopefully more cautious while backing out, but you need to back off! "

I hate SUVs and Minivans wrote on Apr 30, 2007 1:03 PM:

" I was raised without one, and I raised 2 sons without one. They eat gas, their headlights are so high they blind other drivers, and you can't see around them when they are ahead of you, making it unsafe to pass, turn, etc. -- why do people keep buying them? To keep up with the Joneses? To haul sports equipment? I did it without one. It just isn't worth it. Sure, an accident can happen to anyone, but look at the size of that blindspot! Is it worth risking your child's life -- or the life of some other person you didn't see? Buy something smaller, more fuel efficient, and let the car manufacturers know you don't want their stinking SUVs. You don't have to be a radical environmentalist to hate them. (I get 43.2 MPH average gas mileage in my Toyota -- and my two large teenage sons fit in it just fine). "

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