Daughter recalled as lover of animals

By The Citizen staff report

Thursday, November 9, 2006 9:46 AM EST

A 12-year-old girl is being remembered as a special daughter, classmate and animal lover after she died unexpectedly this week.
Joscelyn Barry died in her sleep Tuesday morning at her home in Fleming.

“We were so blessed to have her for 12 years,” Joscelyn's father, Steve Barry, said Wednesday. “She was an absolute joy.”

Steve found Joscelyn unresponsive in her bed when he went to wake her for school Tuesday.

Joscelyn was on the high honor roll at West Middle School in Auburn, where she excelled in art and music and ran cross country.

West Middle School principal Deborah Carey said Joscelyn had been in school Monday and by all accounts had a great day.

“She was very talented and wanted to do whatever she did very well,” Carey said.

“Our hearts just ache for them,” she said, referring to the Barry family.

Steve said Joscelyn knew at a young age that she wanted to be involved with animals and went to zoo camp at Rosamond Gifford Zoo in Syracuse every summer. The family has requested contributions in Joscelyn's memory be made to the zoo.

The Cayuga County Sheriff's Office is investigating Joscelyn's death, and the Onondaga County Medical Examiner's Office has thus far said the cause of death is unknown.

More information may not be available for weeks.

“We hope we find out (how she died)” Steve said. “It would be compounding the tragedy not to know.”

The Barry family is leaning on friends, family and co-workers this week.

“The outpouring of support has been incalculable - tremendous,” Steve said.

He said the assistance and respect shown by the Cayuga County Sheriff's Office, Fleming Fire Department, Onondaga County Medical Examiner's Office and Pettigrass Funeral Home have not been lost on the family.

“The professionals involved in this have been absolutely marvelous,” Steve said.

The Citizens' Say

There are 11 comment(s)

michaela bond wrote on Dec 6, 2006 11:46 PM:

" Jouscelyn was and still is my best friend i was suicidle and i was sent home early because i was so bad i had to be takin in the next room when they told me so i know first hand how upset you are i'm still crying every day i found my self getting worse every day "

Cindy Nagle & Jim Larkin wrote on Nov 10, 2006 8:59 PM:

" Dear Steve, Kathy and Allen: We were tremendously saddened to hear of Joscelyn's loss. We can't even imagine the pain you are feeling, and our hearts ache for you. But we hope it helps, even a little, to know that we (and so many, many others) have been thinking about and praying for you nonstop. May the love of all of us help you through this terrible time. Love, Cindy & Jim "

Your Neighbor wrote on Nov 10, 2006 2:46 PM:

" Barry Family: You are in my heart and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. I can not begin to express my sorrow for your pain. Know that God is all around you, surrounding you in His love threw your family and friends. "

friend wrote on Nov 10, 2006 1:49 PM:

" I am so sorry for the loss. I did not know Joscelyn but i have heard that she was a great, intelligent girl and was very nice to everyone. I have never heard anything bad about her. You should be very proud of your daughter. I know many people that miss her very much. "

A friend wrote on Nov 9, 2006 7:51 PM:

" Mr and Mrs Barry, and Allen: I am so sorry to hear about this. I was absolutely devastated. I am going to miss her so much. Joscelyn was so sweet. Allen, I will always be there for you! I have been Allens friend for a few years now, and it was a tragic loss. I love this family, and I can't believe this would ever happen. I love you all! "

Darby wrote on Nov 9, 2006 6:40 PM:

" I am so sorry for the loss. Joscelyn was one of my best friends because she was in three classes a day with me at west middle, and we were in the same grade this year.I met her last year in sixth grade. "

Shelly wrote on Nov 9, 2006 6:26 PM:

" To the Barry family, I am so sorry about your loss. My daughter knew your daughter from school and she wished that there was something she could say or do to help your family during this sad time, so we added you to our prayer list..Bless you!!!! "

shelly wrote on Nov 9, 2006 6:22 PM:

" To the Barry family, "

Jonathan Michalski wrote on Nov 9, 2006 5:32 PM:

" Mrs Barry,I am so sorry to hear what happen and i will remember her beacuse you talked about her in music class.I am so soryy what happen. "

brenda wrote on Nov 9, 2006 4:01 PM:

" i am so sorry to hear about this tragedy.i just cant imagine being in this horrible situation. "

Alexis De Chick wrote on Nov 9, 2006 3:38 PM:

" I have known Joscelyn Barry from 6th grade. She was a very smart girl and always acted out her book reports with expression. She will always be remembered from all the students at West Middle School. She loved animals. We have had counselors for the friends who have been very close to her. Everyone has been full of sorrow and pain of this death. We will miss her very much. "

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